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Do you ever wish someone would tell you what your next step should be? Being in the early stages of developing an art business has highlighted for me how much I still need to learn. I have so many questions and ideas and see so many different paths I can go down that I sometimes feel overwhelmed. I'm learning to turn that overwhelm into an opportunity to invite other people to journey with me.
It's funny how, as children, we happily relied on our parents' guidance but then "grew up" to think we know everything and don't need anyone's advice . . . until we grow up some more and wish we didn't have to make so many tough decisions on our own. (I saw a great meme last week that said: "I'm not young enough to know everything." Exactly!)
While there is something to be said for using your own brain and taking responsibility for your life and choices without always expecting others to do your thinking for you, it is also a good idea to be humble and honest enough to ask for help when you're stuck. It's the difference between driving around in circles for hours and stopping for a moment to get directions from someone. Life it too short to learn everything through trial and error.
We're all surrounded by people who know a little more or have a little more experience in some area of life, or who simply have more time or strength than we do—and we may very well be that person for someone else. If you feel stressed about your career, a relationship, your finances, your health, a pesky bad habit, or spiritual matters, reach out. Turn to a friend, a family member, another professional in your field, a coach, a pastor, or even an online community. Don't feel like you need to manage things on your own. Even if you don't get the specific guidance you need, you'll find strength in knowing you're not alone.
Fear and shame (or pride) can drive us to isolate ourselves. How about we all resolve not to do that anymore?
One tip before I wrap this up: If you reach out to someone and they say they can't help you or don't want to, don't give up, and don't take it personally. They may simply not have the time, knowledge, confidence, or even personality to help. Someone else will. Trust the process. . . and trust God.
Have a wonderful Monday!
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