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Welcome to the January 2023 issue of our Helping Parents Heal Newsletter!
Take a leap of faith and begin this wondrous New Year by believing ~Sarah Ban Breathnach
Hello, Shining Light Parents and Happy Holidays! For all parents and siblings of children who have transitioned, we understand your journey and we walk the same path. We are grateful that you have found us. This newsletter is a space that allows us to share our amazing children.
We are here for you. Please remember to reach out to our Caring Listeners if you need a supportive parent to speak to. You can reach all of our Caring Listener by clicking here.
We would like to take a moment to thank all of you for being a part of our little group. Our Facebook group now has over 23,800 members, and we have 165 volunteer Affiliate Leaders and Caring Listeners. We know that our kids have brought us together and that they are happy that we have found each other. You are all part of our extended family. Thank you for your compassion and for the continued support you provide. Together, we will help each other heal!
With love and light,
-Elizabeth Boisson, President and Co-Founder of Helping Parents Heal, Newsletter Editor, Caring Listener and Phoenix/Scottsdale Affiliate Leader
Please visit our website, www.helpingparentsheal.org, to find out more, as well as to add your child's tribute, to sign up for our newsletter and to opt-in to support Helping Parents Heal through the Amazon Smiles program.
Our AWESOME Second Helping Parents Heal Conference Video!
Rick Wilcoxson and his ubiquitous chair, The Sheraton Grand Wild Horse Pass
We know that you will love this video as much as we do. All of the parents who have seen it feel that it captures the emotion, energy, and love that were all part of the conference. We are so grateful to Rick and invite you to tell him how this video touched your life. You can reach him at rwilcoxson@cox.net. Please view the video by clicking here. Please note that the kids' photos are small, so the video is best viewed on a larger screen. THANK YOU, RICK!
-With love and light, Elizabeth Boisson, Morgan and Chelsea's proud mom
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Validation Stories from Parents Just Like Us:
Paula Emeigh's Validation from her daughter Laura through Christopher MendezPaula and her Daughter, Laura, Paula with her Shining Light T-Shirt, Christopher Mendez
I thought I was prepared for the death of my Mom when I was in my 30’s. She had been sick for awhile so it was no surprise when she passed away. It was the same with my daughter Laura. She had been sick for awhile due to drug usage and the damage it had done to her body. She was only 31.
Like most Mother/daughter relationships- ours had been strained for many years. Her use of drugs had me taking on the role of tough love. I watched her decline with anger and horror.
Like most people I remember the worst year of my life. In 2018 I lost my soul dog Ralphie, and then in October of that same year my only child died.
In 2019 I found myself in a deep depression and even contemplating suicide. I only shared this with a few people but it was a cry for help. I was told about the Helping Parents Heal organization and given the information to connect with Elizabeth. She was welcoming and friendly as I attended my first meeting.
I didn’t want to be there and honestly didn’t want to associate with these people. After that meeting I didn’t want to go back. But I continued to read the posts on facebook and attend the monthly meetings. After awhile these people became like family. Only they could understand the huge loss and was willing to hear stories of Laura.
In the November meeting of Helping Parents Heal at Unity of Phoenix with Christopher and Eddie Mendez, I had my very first “gallery” reading with Chris Mendez. I know he connected with Laura because she mentioned how good I looked and how I was healing. How could he know this?
I was always large and had weight loss surgery in 2020. Laura never got to see me thin. I know it was Laura because we were always into fashion and she “is” proud of my accomplishments.
There are too many stories to name here but with the help of HPH I have become a new person. A better version of myself and I am certainly more connected then ever before. Healing is a journey that can be done. I “speak” with Laura daily, have regular dream visitations from her and our relationship is better now than when she was alive. I am blessed!
Thank you for all you do. I’m so happy to have found HPH and blessed to have you and the HPH network in my life.
~Written by Paula Emeigh, Laura's proud mom
Naomi V's validation from her daughter Lindsay through Daisy Mae Moore
Naomi V with Lindsay and her husband, Daisy Mae Moore
Our very special needs daughter Lindsay was born with a genetic disorder that meant she never spoke one word during her 23 years with us. She didn't walk independently, she was severely challenged, and she suffered terribly. My husband and I made every day about her quality of life and giving her the best day every day. It was a very difficult time, but she was our everything. Although she couldn't speak, she was very assertive and communicative in her own way, and she knew what she wanted. She passed in June 2019.
I've been going through a medical challenge myself recently that only very close friends knew about, and I was desperate to get a sign from Lindsay. I've been to many HPH gallery readings on Zoom, but until this past October 11th, Lindsay had never come through. On that day, I had just woken up in bed and happened to see a reminder on the HPH Facebook page that Daisy was to do a gallery reading. I love Daisy and I've watched her before, so I casually clicked on the Zoom link on my iPad and had no expectations at all. Suddenly I heard Daisy say, "Does anybody have a connection to the name Lindsay? Seems to be a son connection as well. And the month of September connects. Does she also connect to December? I've got two kids coming in at the same time."
I couldn't believe that Daisy was saying this! My hands were shaking so much, but I was able to type "My daughter Lindsay has passed" in the chat box. Then everything froze! I could hear Daisy and meeting hosts Irene Vouvalides and Elizabeth Boisson asking, "Naomi, can you respond to this?" and I couldn't! The chat box wouldn't let me type anymore and my camera wouldn't come on. I was hitting every button I could, and nothing was working. I was screaming at the top of my lungs and crying, "Lindsay! Hold on! I'm coming! I'm trying Lindsay!"
I ended up clicking right out of Facebook and Zoom and somehow got back on, and they were still talking about Lindsay! I was finally able to type in the chat box that I was back, and Irene knew that I had gone in and out and now I was back in, and she asked Daisy if she should unmute me. Daisy said yes and then said, "Spirit is being really good here and not moving out of the way for you, so they're making this hold for you," and she told me to take a deep breath and ground myself because I was so emotional. Was this really happening?
I told Daisy that Lindsay's birthday was September 2nd, and December is my birthday month. Daisy asked if Lindsay's passing was unexpected, and I said that her passing was expected, and she had been sick for a very long time. Then Daisy said, "Your son is coming in with her. For whatever reason they're friends in spirit," and she said that our son came to the other side before Lindsay. I told Daisy that my husband and I had a son who passed 22 years ago. Then Daisy said, "They're together, they want you to know that they're together."
Daisy then asked me, "Do you have any stomach problems going on? They're putting their hands on your belly to give you healing in your stomach. And do you have lower back pain as well?" I said yes, and Daisy said, "They're giving you healing there as well."
Daisy ended my reading by saying, "Your beautiful children came in together and you know they're together, and they're definitely looking out for you as well. And even though you had all those problems not being able to get back online, they waited for you just to give you that. And so much love and healing to you. God bless."
I was in awe that Lindsay's personality has continued on. She held on and made sure Daisy didn't move on during my technical difficulties, and that's my girl 100 per cent. That reading gave me a lot of courage to persevere through my own medical challenge.
Thank you so much Daisy and Helping Parents Heal.
~ Lindsay's proud Mom, Naomi V.
Please watch Naomi's video with Daisy Mae Moore by clicking here.
Kathryn Anderson's validation from her son Jonny through Stacey Lynn Cripps
Jonny, Stacey Lynn Cripps, Jonny and Kathryn Anderson
Oh Stacey, Thank you so much..I received a reading from you on November 22nd during a Zoom meeting of Helping Parents Heal.
Jonny was 28 but looked very young. He acted and sang in fact, you mentioned music we recorded a song together 1 month before he passed. You mentioned Mar and Ellen that is my mother I believe she was with him
My son journaled we both do and He was journaling about the same thing as me as I found his journal after he passed. He loved the water and his cottage and loved to run off the dock and jump into the water. He loved tubing. He did not like to drive; that's where he had his 1st Afib attack.
Yes, we have work to do, as I found his thumb drive with a Bible study for helping young men, and me and my husband and his brother my other son are going to do it.
He is also a writer as am I but I write children's books ad he writes novels we are working on a book to help other parents and siblings heal.
The ring I helped him pick out the engagement ring for his wife. 'Race to the Finish' was the movie he stared in it has a new name now on Amazon prime 'Super Heroes Don't need Capes.'
Jonny helped many many young men at his own detriment. He jumped in front of a gun to save a friend's life. He wore a medal around his neck always. It meant a lot my husband gave him his dog tags He died from Afib - a clot in the heart upper aorta.
Stacey nailed it; he came to me right away we are best friends he told me we have much work to do together. I paint and draw and write and Jonny was a beautiful singer and writer and actor.
I am so Thankful he told me he was coming thru you Stacey and he did!! Thank you - so beautiful. Thank you!
~ Jonny's proud mom, Kathryn Anderson
Please watch Kathryn's video with Stacey Lynn Cripps by clicking here.
Angela Coop's Validation from her son Keenam through Lisa Wilcoxson
Keenam, Lisa Wilcoxson
I wanted to say how amazing the reading I received from Lisa Wilcoxson was.
First of all, every detail was spot on; Lisa brought up a black and white dog that passed shortly after my son did she also brought a experience I had when my son passed that very few people know about as well as the prayer chain we had and my close relationship with my son as I was a single mother. I am so thankful for this reading and for the time Elizabeth takes for us angel parents she got me through another holidays giving us that hope that is so healing thank you so much Elizabeth ❤️
~Keenam's proud Mom, Angela Coop
Would you like to share a story of validation or healing with other Parents? We are all able to heal when we share personal stories about our children with others. Moreover, everyone benefits from the validations that we receive from our children. We love to hear about them! If you have a story that you would like to share about your child, please let us know and we will include it in a future newsletter. Please send it to Elizabeth Boisson at elizabeth@helpingparentsheal.org (Due to space limitations, please be sure it is no longer than 500-600 words.)
Helping Parents Heal Resumes In-Person Meetings at Unity of Phoenix!
Our Upcoming Monthly Presenters!
Unity of Phoenix has invited Helping Parents Heal to resume our monthly meetings from 1-3 pm on most third Sundays of the month and we are ver grateful. We kindly request a $5 per person love donation to pay for the space, insurance and our presenters.
Our upcoming presenters will be:
-Evidential Medium Fara Gibson for Gallery Readings on January 15th. Please click here to join!
-Helping Parents Heal Board Member, Shining Light Dad and Author Ernie Jackson and his wife Kristine will speak about forgiveness on February 19th. Please click here to join!
-Caring Listener, Affiliate Leader, Evidential Medium and Shining Light Mom Lisa Wilcoxson for Gallery Readings on March 19th. Please click here to join!
-Evidential Medium Christine Salter on April 16th. Please click here to join!
-Board Member, Caring Listener, Affiliate Leader and Shining Light Mom Carol Allen on May 21st. Please click here to join!
We will be meeting in the beautiful Sanctuary at Unity so we have plenty of room to welcome you. We hope to see you there!
A Huge THANK YOU to our Amazing Zoom Presenters!
We were grateful to welcome the following wonderful Presenters:
Andrea Courey, Dr. Mark Pitstick, Stacey Lynn Cripps, Judith Hancox, Beth and Rick Olsen, Becky Hesseltine, Pauline Mason, James Van Praagh, Daniel John, Carey Conley and Laurel Conley Wilson, Suzanne Giesemann, and Gordon Smith. Please check out many of their presentations on our YouTube Channel.
Join Us For Our Upcoming Main Group Zoom Meetings!
Kat Baillie, Mark Anthony, Daisy Mae Moore, James Van Praagh, Andrea Courey, Isabella Johnson, Jennifer Brazier, Beth Lynch, Cindy Bohart, Dr. Melvin Morse, Reverend Sue Frederick and Joe McQuillen, Mark Ireland, Shelly Wilson, Dr. Mark Pitstick Melissa Lyons, Michelle Stokotelny, Jacob Cooper, Jean Roalsvig, Kat Baillie, and Sharon Hewitt Rawlette PhD
-Gallery Readings with Kat Baillie on December 20th
-Mark Anthony - An Evening with Spirit on December 20th
-Gallery Readings with Daisy Mae Moore on December 21st
-Gallery Readings with James Van Praagh on December 22nd
-Holiday Sound Healing with Andrea Courey on December 24th
-Gallery Readings with Isabella Johnson on January 11th
-Gallery Readings with Jennifer Brazier on January 12th
-Gallery Readings with Beth Lynch on January 17th
-Helping Parents Heal Bookclub with Cindy Bohart on January 18th
-Pediatric Near Death Experiences with Dr. Melvin Morse on January 19th
-Sue Frederick and Joe McQuillen - Finding the Thin Place - January 24th
-Mark Ireland - Mediumship Certification and Research Studies - January 26th
-Evidential Medium Shelly Wilson - Gallery Readings on January 31st
-Dr. Mark Pitstick - Ask the Soul Doctor on February 2nd
-International Bestselling Author and Intuitive Coach Melissa Lyons on February 7th
-Gallery Readings with Michelle Stokotelny on February 9th
-Helping Parents Heal Bookclub with Jacob Cooper on February 13th
-Intuitive Energy Guide Jean Roalsvig on February 16th
-Gallery Readings with Kat Baillie on February 21st
-Sharon Hewitt Rawlette PhD, Specialist in Life After Death and Meaningful Synchronicities on February 21st
Please view our recent presenters on our YouTube Channel or on our Helping Parents Heal FB under 'videos', where all of the videos are available! Please also join our Facebook group here to sign up for the upcoming Zoom conference meetings. They can be attended by anyone, anywhere in the world with Internet service! They hope to see you there.
Dr. Mark Pitstick and Lynn Hollahan lead our 33 HPH Caring Listeners
The Caring Listeners By Alphabetical Order: Manisha Akhauri, David and Allison Alison, Carol Allen, Lisa Arnold, Claudia Ardelean, Elizabeth Boisson, Mabel Chan, Dolores Cruz, Pamela DeMars, Judith Hancox, Nancy Hejna, Point of Contact Lynn Hollahan, Jeff Hollahan, Lisa Laniewski, Paige Lee, Conrado Leslie, Paola Leslie, Joyce McLaughlin, Rosanne Norris, Janean Quigley, Linda Rampling, John Rooks, Laurie Savoie, Elly Sheykhet, Brian Smith, Tywana M. Smith, Suzi Smith, Merle Taylor, Irene Vouvalides and Lisa Wilcoxson of the Caring Listeners.
Our thirty-two wonderful volunteer Caring Listeners, led by Dr. Mark Pitstick and Lynn Hollahan, are willing to talk in person, by phone or by Zoom. They each are bereaved parents who are now shining brightly – most of the time – and want to help others. We have Spanish-Speaking, French-speaking, Italian-Speaking, Cantonese-Speaking, Romanian-Speaking, Russian-Speaking and Hindi-Speaking Caring Listeners as well. Now more than ever, please do not hesitate to call! Please click here to learn more!
NEW CARING LISTENER in the United Kingdom!
Terri MacDonald, our United Kingdom Affiliate Leader
I am a mother to four children Shayne, Ricki, Carly and Chloe, my son Ricki, forever 23 passed due to an accidental heroin overdose on 30/06/2015. I honestly believe we have a soul agreement and mission together. The pain we all suffer as parents, whatever age in whatever circumstance our child passes, it changes our world forever. I had a spiritual awakening through Rick reaching out to me straight away with amazing signs and synchronicities, I searched for him and we met ‘somewhere in the middle’. From this beautiful place, we are so strongly connected. I developed my Mediumship abilities at my local Inverness Spiritualist Church and supported Mentorship programmes, a huge part of my healing journey. Mediumship is my passion. I recently became an Accredited Medium and an Accredited Tarot Reader. I continue to learn and grow and love to watch other Medium’s work. I believe Ricki and I have a soul mission helping other parents.
Our healing journey is not easy, but I do believe we grow as a soul and go on to finding a purpose, what we came here to do. Becoming a Caring Listener is in my heart. I feel so honoured to connect with such amazing parents and look forward to sharing this amazing space together.
Dr. Mark Pitstick, Author of 'Soul Proof'Mark Pitstick and his book 'Soul Proof'
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Lives
January 2023
by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form. However, I’m glad you know he / she is alive and well. I'm also happy that you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy. Six key understandings to making that shift are:
1. Approximately 99% of who and what your child “was” is still alive in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on. See articles #1 and 60 at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific and clinical evidence for this statement. For more information, see my short and easy-to-read book The Afterlife Evidence.
2. Only his earthly body died. Everything else continues – the love, energy, sense of humor, memory, personality, energetic body, and much more. Really knowing this is a key to healing.
3. She is happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and wants you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds and #93 For Bereaved Parents and Family Members to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see him when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now
5. You can choose to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that
powerfully improves your life and blesses others. See article #82 Journey from 'Bereaved' to 'Shining Light'
6. You can heal and increase the gifts from his life by lovingly serving others. Read article #84 Heal and Transform Your Suffering
After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge that. However, many have learned to emphasize #1 – 6 above and enjoy life again. They have journeyed – one step at a time – FROM primarily identifying as bereaved TO shining light persons.
Shining light family members have sad feeling too at times, but they choose to focus – as much as possible – on appreciation for great times and memories, realization they will see their child again, and transformation by finding the silver linings. They resolve to make the world a better place in honor of their children by creating more meaning to their life and passing.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day. To learn more, see article #2 at SoulProof.com. Here are five action steps . . .
• Attend local and online Helping Parents Heal meetings
• Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge
• Read free articles at SoulProof.com and take relevant action steps
• Listen to free Radio Shows at SoulProof.com and experts' answers to life’s toughest questions including “Why do children die?”
• Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others.
Q: This is the third holiday season since our sweet daughter graduated from earth-school. Our goal is to handle this the best yet but, honesty, that feels kind of impossible. What do you suggest?
A: Thank you for asking this very important question and setting that goal. And kudos for your accurate language that she was ready to move onto a different part of forever for good reasons. Here are five steps you can take to fulfill your intention:
1. Use the ART Technique as described in article 41. The A.R.T. Technique. This will allow you to focus on: Appreciation for your time together and great memories; Realization that you will see each other again and can enjoy a different but great relationship now; Transforming yourself to honor her life and create more meaning to your suffering.
2. Invite her for holiday gatherings and talk to her as if she is actually in the room . . . since she probably is. If some family or friends might be triggered by this, communicate with her telepathically from your heart. Then listen for subtle but clear responses.
3. Visit with her via the Facilitated ADC session. To learn more, see article #9. Visiting ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now.
4. Serve others in her name to shift your focus FROM lower energy emotions (sadness, guilt, anger, pain, etc.) TO love, peace, joy, and compassion. HOW you do this isn't as important as that you do something. To learn more about this, see article 108. Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being
5. Use the six keys and five action steps listed above. Remember that reaching your goal is usually a process that slowly but surely lightens your grief and awakens you to 'The Great News'. To learn more about what that is, see article 111. Release the Past For an Optimal Now.
Use these simple but powerful approaches and notice if you think, feel, speak, and act differently as a result. Doing that – even a little bit – can, over time, help you see the big picture of life. That can amplify your ability to sense her living presence during the holidays and every day.
Hugs, love, and blessings as you heal, transform, and remember the big picture of life!
~Mark
Note #1: I am available to give brief, but information and resource-packed replies to my HPH family at no charge.
Note #2: I mention my audio products and books so you have information and resources for healing and transformation. Email me at mark@soulproof.com if you need, but cannot afford any products, and we’ll send a complimentary digital copy.
Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor with a masters in clinical psychology, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. Mark also completed extensive postgraduate training in clinical nutrition. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. Mark directs The SoulPhone Foundation, founded Greater Reality Living groups, and assists SoulPhone Project research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health. His mission is to help you know and show that – no matter what is happening to you or around you – this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever. Visit SoulProof.com for free articles, radio shows, and newsletters.
THE WISDOM OF GREGWritten by Susan Van Oije with Bill and Greg
Bill is just an ordinary guy who has had extraordinary things happen to him since the passing of his son Greg. Susan writes it all down. The Calgary, Canada affiliate leaders are on an amazing journey with their son.
A NEW YEAR'S MESSAGE FROM THE OTHER SIDE
It's the start of a New Year, dear Shining Light Parents, and what better time than now to share with you more Wisdom of Greg! In an earlier column, we talked about how our son in spirit is guiding us here on this Earth plane. Since Greg's passing eight years ago, his Dad is able to hear Greg talk to him, and his messages are so comforting and gentle. We call these beautiful messages the Wisdom of Greg, and he recently told us something that will carry us through this coming year and beyond.
One recent afternoon, I said to Bill, "I wonder if Greg is as frustrated with us as we were with him when he was here. Everything we know, and we still can't do it right all the time." We tried so hard to give Greg good guidance as he struggled while he was here, and now he is giving us such amazing guidance to help us live our lives, and yet it's so difficult to put that into consistent practice. Knowing what we know, based on what Greg has told us and what we have learned, you would think we would be doing life perfectly! Living every moment down here with love, peace and joy in your heart is challenging. We know we're human, as well as Light, and the human side sometimes takes over. Driving in heavy traffic springs to mind!
We know Greg is always with us and hears everything, especially when we're talking about him, but I had no idea he would respond to my musings so quickly! Later in the day, Bill went into our office to meditate, and Greg started talking to him right away. Bill got up to write it down, and here is what Greg said:
"Hi Dad, hi Mom. Today, Mom, I heard you say, 'Everything that we know, and we still can't put into place behavior that is based on what we have been shown and come to realize as being true'. Yes, that is so, but it is not about being perfect. This is about learning and growing into a more loving place for yourself among all of God's Creation. If we could all do it right all the time we would be done and could go Home to rest. The fun is learning how to take baby steps towards becoming like the only perfect being in existence, the One, the Creator, the All Knowing. There are great masters who have learned over eons to completely surrender to this stream of consciousness, and they are still learning, but occupy much of their time sharing their understanding with those ready to hear. It is why we have forever to master this knowledge, for no consciousness is capable of ever totally becoming the One because then there would be two. So as we reach for the stars, we attain a resemblance of the One as a shard of the One but not the One as there is only One. This is accomplished by those with a desire to brighten and shine their light more intensely, for this gives one the greatest insight into the One if this is what is desired on your journey. I can think of no better ambition or goal than to shine as a star of the One. Not all care to achieve this but you have forever to figure it out. Those searching for this state of total knowing and elation are the teachable. God has great blessings for these souls. Let the journey continue. It is a quest of miracles and magnificence. You have no idea. You are now on this journey and that can never be taken away. Your eyes are wide open. You have made unconsciousness unbearable and so there is no going back. Give yourselves a pat on the back for making a contribution to this journey of love."
Greg's message is exactly the same as a message Bill received a few months ago from one of his guides, a great master, when Bill was judging himself about behavior that he felt was not up to the mark. Bill's guide told him, "Do not be so hard on yourself. We do not judge you and only love you as one of our children with no thoughts of how you are behaving in your circumstances. All that matters to us is that you're making progress, and that is no easy task, for you have many challenges to deal with on a daily basis on your earthly plane. You are doing well and we are very proud of you. Be patient with yourself. Do not judge yourself harshly for you are pure Love and there is no right or wrong way to do you. Your higher self knows what you wish to attain and aspire for in your lifetime, and you will accomplish all you set out to be. Just be grateful for your experience, be proud of your progress, and love yourself as much as we do. You must be kind to yourself and know that all is well and happening to you as you had planned. You are blessed and loved much. Forgive yourself. We have. Be content to be who you are. There is much love in you. You can never go back from where you have come from and your future is very bright...and remember, you have forever. Greg has awakened you to that awareness. Patience and perseverance. Have faith all is well."
These beautiful words apply to all of us, dear Shining Light Parents, especially at this time of year when people are making New Year's resolutions and inevitably coming short of the mark. It touches the deepest part of the soul to be told you don't have to be perfect, but you can choose to make some progress, and you have forever to do it. So as we head into this New Year, we encourage you to be gentle with yourself, forgive yourself, and be proud of yourself for heading into 2023 with open eyes and an open heart.
If you would like to hear more about our amazing experiences, click here to watch the video Bill made for the HPH YouTube channel.
-Written by Susan Van Oije with Bill and Greg
Uplifting Books About the Afterlife
The Wisdom of Jacob's Ladder, Melodies of Grief Written in the Key of Love
Books by Jacob Cooper and Maggie Spaulding
We are grateful to have two new books to recommend this month: The Wisdom of Jacob's Ladder by Jacob Cooper and Melodies of Grief Written in the Key of Love by HPH Nashville Affiliate Leader Maggie Spaulding. I was honored to read and write recommendations for both works.
About The Wisdom of Jacob's Ladder: Based on his near-death experience and past life regressions, Jacob L. Cooper, LCSW, shares insight about the mystery of life on the other side of the veil. In addition to peace and euphoria in the afterlife, we also experience these feelings in the physical world; there is so much more to live for, as we are much more resilient than we imagine. Jacob’s experience provides the guidance for others to experience past-life memories by assisting in the development of self-awareness and finding meaning in their experiences.
Jacob will be joining us by Zoom on February 13th at 8 pm EST to discuss his beautiful new work. Please click here to join us!
About Melodies of Grief Written in the Key of Love: Melodies of Grief Written in the Key of Love is part memoir, part self-help that offers a roadmap to understand and heal your grief. Author Maggie Willes Spaulding shares her heart-wisdom by chronicling her journey after the devastating loss of her 27-year old son, Mitchell. Melodies offers healing through inspired poems, insights, and therapeutic tools. Each chapter offers the reader hope, comfort and the realization that you are not alone. Please click here to learn more! Maggie will be offering her ebook for free in January - please watch for the announcement!
Please click here to go to the Recommended Reading tab of our website. We have books by Providers, books by Parents, Libros en Español and Children's books.
Affiliate Updates -
In an effort to keep all of our wonderful parents safe during this Covid-19 pandemic, Helping Parents Heal now holds both Zoom meetings and in-person meetings. The in-person meetings follow local legislation. Please contact our Affiliate Director, Dawn Richards, if you would like more information about individual Affiliate Groups.
NEW GROUP - Helping Parents Heal - Valdosta, Georgia
Janet Rose Carter, our new HPH - Georgia Affiliate Leader
Hello, wonderful Parents! Please join me in welcoming our newest Affiliate Group Leader in Valdosta, Georgia, Janet Rose Carter!
Please read more about Janet:
On November 23, 2021, while out shopping for his father’s birthday gift, my son collapsed and died from a sudden cardiac arrest. My life changed forever, and I thought I would never ever experience any form of joy again, and to be honest, I didn’t want to continue living. Even though I had my daughter, husband, and parents to live for, I needed to know my child was okay, and I wanted to be with him. That was until spirit led me to Helping Parents Heal, which has been a life saver for me. I now KNOW that my son is still here with me, and he wants me to continue living….and I will do just that!
-Written by our newest Helping Parents Heal - Valdosta, Georgia Affiliate Leader, Janet Rose Carter
NEW AFFILIATE LEADERS! Helping Parents Heal - Australia/NZ!
Kerry Alderuccio, Karolina Barac, Danny and Angela London, Marie Sulda, Anne Marie Tarpin, Merle Taylor
Kerry Alderuccio:
I'm a psychic medium and author, but more importantly; I'm Sam's mum. Sam passed to the spirit world in May, 2012 in a tragic car accident. I have always believed in the afterlife, and this gave me the strength to survive my grief. My own mediumistic abilities were only realised after Sam's passing and sadly, I had no idea that HPH existed until early 2022. I wish that I knew about this amazing group earlier, as their understanding of the continuation of life is in full alignment with my own. I want to give parents hope of a better future, through knowing that their children live on.
Karolina Barac:
I found HPH shortly after the unexpected & tragic passing of my beautiful daughter, Olivia at 15 in Oct 2021. We are a very open minded & spiritual family & noticed Olivia was sending signs & trying to communicate straight away - we just needed to learn how to receive them! I dived into healing & educating myself on energy work, soul planning & spirit communication, which has now extended to facilitating the healing of others. I am a Usui Reiki Master, Advance Akashic Records Practitioner, Psychic Medium student & currently undertaking a Kinesiology degree. The physical loss of our children is devastating but the love & relationship continues as our children live on.
Danny & Angela London:
My wife Angela and I are raising our boys in the suburb of Aldinga Beach in South Australia. We live close to the beach and all of our 3 boys love the ocean and in particular the surf. Our three boys are Ethan (18), Gemtree (14) and Lacy (12). Ethan passed in December of 2019 in a car accident. Our boy loved life and was always up for adventure. He loved the ocean and the outback and his heart was torn between the two. He loved to laugh and his laugh made others laugh and every time I hear a Kookaburra I know he is close. He had a tremendous capacity to love in the moment and the extent of the hearts that he touched only became apparent to us after he passed. This capacity has not diminished and his lessons on love come to us daily and we are painfully but joyfully going along for the ride. We hope to share this legacy and journey with others.
Marie Sulda:
I am a Mother of two wonderful daughters, my Earth daughter Gigi and my Angel daughter Sienna (who passed suddenly from an aneurysm when she was 11) on the 16th of May, 2020. Sienna’s passing was something I always believed I could never survive....but through her signs, dreams and messages, I have realised that she is still with me. Sienna is a beautiful old soul who loved to give strangers compliments, cared for the bullied kid at school and inspired her friends and even adults to be themselves. She has inspired me use my remaining earth years to help others as best I can. I look forward to sharing and healing together.
Anne-Marie Taplin:
Anne-Marie’s elder son, Harry, transitioned in October 2020, aged just 19, in a motorcycle accident. She has been a member of HPH Australia/New Zealand since January 2021 and is grateful for the focus on signs, the afterlife, films and books about spirituality and beyond. Since Harry’s accident, she has immersed herself in art and creativity, including writing about the experience of loss and connection. She has active communication with her son through abundant dreams and visitations as well as the occasional sign, for which she is beyond grateful. She is also mum to George, aged 18, and lives in Adelaide, Australia.
Merle Taylor:
My beautiful son Chris, 34 years old, transitioned in Dec 2018 while overseas in Bali with his family. It was a tragedy.
I have been blessed with an upbringing of knowing that heaven exists right here and that our loved ones are right here with us, this gave me great peace at the time and acceptance. I was still very sad. I went searching to validate my beliefs and found Helping Parents Heal through watching the interview with Craig McMahon “Life to AfterLife, mom can you hear me.”
I would like to bring hope and connection to others, helping others to see our kids are not ‘gone’ but are now precious loving light and energy doing everything they can to help us on our journey forward on this earthly plane in joy and love.
-Written by our Helping Parents Heal - Australia/New Zealand team members
The Reverend Sue Frederick speaks at Unity of Phoenix for HPH!
Reverend Sue Frederick
The Reverend Sue Frederick Spoke to Helping Parents Heal at Unity of Phoenix on December 11th! The Reverend Sue Frederick spoke to all of us in the Sanctuary of Unity on December 11th. It was a helpful, uplifting meeting and Sue taught us how to calculate numerology to better understand our lives, our healing paths, and how to move forward. Website: http://www.suefrederick.com After a few false starts, here is the recording! It was great to see all of you there. We are all grateful to beautiful Sue!
Helping Parents Heal - Cave Creek, White Elephant Gift Exchange!
Carol Allen's lovely home with Shining Light parents. Photos Thomas Rednour
Carol Allen invited the parents of her Helping Parents Heal - Cave Creek Affiliate Group to celebrate the Holidays with a White Elephant Gift Exchange on November 29th! It was a wonderful opportunity to get together and spread cheer. Carol's home is always warm and inviting, the food was delicious and everyone went home with a beautiful, thoughtful gift. Thank you, beautiful Carol!
Helping Parents Heal - Flagstaff Holiday Meeting!
HPH Flagstaff Holiday Meeting with Janean Quigley and Megan Walker McCarthy
Our December meeting was lovely. We listened to David Kessler's tips on getting through the holidays. See link below. And for those who didn't make a candle in November, supplies were available again. I wish I had taken photos so if you want to share a photo of your candle on this post I think it would be so nice.
Thanks to Tracy for the beautiful matches with her very special artistic touches. Thanks for all of the yummy treats.
Most of all thank you all for being a part of my healing journey. Much love to us all as we move through the holidays. Thank you Megan Walker McCarthy for finding this video. Please click here to listen to David Kessler's message!
~Written by our Helping Parents Heal - Flagstaff Affiliate Leader, Janean Quigley
Helping Parents Heal - Philadelphia Holiday Brunch!
HPH Philadelphia Holiday Brunch with Antoinetta Forte and Chris Volpe
The HPH Philadelphia Affiliate Group met in person on Dec 4 for brunch. We shared happy memories of our children ……especially during the Christmas season. We truly believe that our children have brought us together to support each other on this journey.
Here is our group picture with each of us holding a photo of our child.
~Chris Volpe and Antoinetta Forte, HPH Co-Affiliate Leaders, Philadelphia, PA
Helping Parents Heal - Sound Healing with Andrea Courey!
Andrea Courey
Every month, please join us for a Sound Healing Meditation with author and Shining Light Mom Andrea Courey! Award winning entrepreneur, author, lecturer and recipient of a McGill University Dobson Fellow, Andrea graduated from McGill University in 1982 and from the University of Victoria in 2018 with a Master’s in Education. Since Andrea’s near death experience in 1991, she has been practicing meditation and was introduced to Sound Meditation a decade later.
Andrea’s daughter Chloe passed into Spirit in 2016. Six weeks later, Andrea began a dialogue with Chloe after hearing Chloe’s words 'Mom, you are so easy to find it's a joke'. For five months they exchanged many conversations which became Andrea’s first book ‘Conversations with Chloe: A Mother and Daughter Dialogue Across the Veil’. Her second book, ‘Magical Thinking…not!’ is a collection of conversations with bereaved parents about their journeys of love and loss and the signs they receive from their children in spirit. Andrea is a sound healing practitioner helping people to reduce anxiety and experience deep peace. To receive her books as a free pdf and the zoom links to her sound sessions, write to acourey1212@gmail.com.
Helping Parents Heal - Connecting with Our Loved Ones
Mary Bertun and Tava Wilson
Helping Parents Heal – Connecting with Our Loved Ones meets online using Zoom once a month on the third Tuesday evening of the month. For more information contact faithinangels.academy@gmail.com.
Sometimes we host speakers, but more often we discuss our experiences and our children. So we learn about miracles and we hear about love. Zoom Meeting time is 6:00pm – 8:00pm.
Helping Parents Heal - NYC/Westchester holds weekly Zoom Meetings!
Colleen Byrne
My name is Colleen Byrne and our youngest son Denis (DJ) passed away on October 4, 2019. He transitioned after a short illness that affected his respiratory system. DJ began sending signs right away and came through to us via a medium Maura Geist one month after his passing. I chat with DJ daily and he often comes to me with music and butterflies. I know that helping others on this journey is where I am meant to be. Our group covers NYC and Westchester counties. Meetings are held by Zoom for the time being, on Thursday evenings at 7:00 pm EST. Please contact Colleen for more information at: hphnycwestchester@gmail.com
Lisa Wilcoxson & Irene Vouvalides - All Our Children/Only Child
Irene Vouvalides and Linus, Lisa Wilcoxson
Irene Vouvalides and Lisa Wilcoxson host a monthly meeting on the third Wednesday of the month at 8 pm EST for parents who have had all of their children transition. It is an uplifting, healing meeting and they would love for you to join them. Please click here to join the group and learn more!
Helping Fathers Heal with Mike Edwards
Mike and Dylan Edwards, Josh and Andy Bohart, Chris Myers and Paige, Warren Gibbons and Nolan, Jeff Cottrell and Austin
The Affiliate Leader of Helping Fathers Heal continue to hold weekly meetings on Wednesdays at 7 pm Central. Please contact Mike for more information and the Zoom link here.
Shiome Healing Circle with Judith Hancox, MSW, LCSW, BCETS
Judith Hancox
Shiome Healing Circle with Judith A. Hancox on the 2nd Monday of each month on Zoom – September through May, 2 - 4:15 PM EST.
Transforming disturbing memories to positive images/thoughts/feelings in the ‘magic circle’ is a protocol developed over decades of study and practice with significant mentors and healers - from Dr. Art Frankel, founder of the Gestalt Institute of NJ, to Grandma Mechi Garza, Indigenous American Cherokee Medicine Woman. Shiome means ‘rip current,’ and the Shiome Shift is designed to transfer one’s disturbance to peace of mind within this 2-hour session.
Judith A. Hancox, MSW, LCSW, BCETS, has been a holistic trauma recovery practitioner since 1990. She is licensed in Vermont and New Jersey, and telehealth certified in Florida. She has certifications in Gestalt Therapy, EMDR, Evolving Thought Field Therapy, Repair & Reattachment Grief Therapy, and Past Life Regression Therapy, trained by Dr. Brian Weiss. Judith is the founder of Shiome Therapy and is board-certified by the American Association of Experts in Traumatic Stress. She co-produced Creating Healthy Boundaries CD with a guided meditation and bilateral musical composition, Angelic Sea. She also created Shiome, The Way: Energy Correcting Meditation (book and CD which consists of two guided meditations - 16 minutes and 6 minutes) with a bilateral musical composition, Bi-Lateral Bliss, and the music of Graceful Ascension and Heavenly Descent. Judith recently created Energy Connecting Meditations with essential oils for an uplifting body, mind, spirit experience. She has been volunteering for Helping Parents Heal since the transition of her godchild, Carly Elizabeth Hughes, in 2013.
A reminder that the Shiome Healing Circles are the 2nd Monday of the month, either 2:00 - 4:15 pm or 6:30 - 8:45 PM EST in 2023. Our next meeting is on January 9th.
JANUARY 9TH – 6:30 – 8:45 PM
FEBRUARY 13TH – 2:00 – 4:15 PM
MARCH 13TH – 6:30 – 8:45 PM
APRIL 10TH – 2:00 – 4:15 PM
MAY 8TH – 6:30 – 8:46 PM
SUMMER BREAK
SEPTEMBER 11TH – 2:00 – 4:15 PM
OCTOBER 9TH – 6:30 – 8:45 PM
NOVEMBER 13TH – 2:00 – 4:15 PM
DECEMBER 11TH 6:30 – 8:45 PM
Please contact Joyce McLaughlin, Caring Listener and Registrar, at tennfarm@comcast.net to fill out our paperwork and receive the link to the meetings, the weekend before the event. Registration closes on the Sunday before each Monday meeting. We hope to see you there! Also, read more about Bilateral and Binaural Brain Stimulation in Trauma Recovery by clicking here.
Helping Parents Heal - Meditation Group
David, Davey and Allison Alison
Please join David and Allison Alison of the Helping Parents Heal Online Meditation Group, every third Wednesday of the month at 9 pm EST! Allison and David are the parents of three amazing adult children: Jocelyn, Davey and Julia. Davey transitioned on July 20, 2016; he was involved in a solo car accident at the age of 24. This is documented along with their journey in David’s book Finding Davey. We felt Davey right away and knew he was not gone. We found out about HPH and it has helped us heal and connect with other patents. We enjoy talking about the signs we get from Davey and hearing about other parents’ experiences. Being a “Shining Light Parent” has helped us find meaning. Now with the HPH Meditation group, we would like to help others through positive energy and love with the help of our children on the other side. Please click here to learn more!
The Amazon Smile Program - Sign Up to Allow Us to Help More Parents!
Please designate Helping Parents Heal Inc as your preferred charity on the Amazon Smile program. This will allow 0.5% of eligible purchases on Amazon to help fund our 2020 conference. Just log in, type in 'Amazon Smile' into the search bar at the top of the page, and then choose 'Helping Parents Heal Inc' as your preferred charity. Then, when you log on to Amazon, remember to do so at: smile.amazon.com. And THANK YOU!
Mission of Helping Parents Heal: Our mission is to help parents who have had children pass, giving them support and resources to aid in the healing process. We will go a step beyond other groups by allowing the open discussion of spiritual experiences and evidence for the Afterlife in a non-dogmatic way. In other words, we will welcome everyone regardless of their religious (or non-religious) background and allow for a very open type of dialog. We receive all and do not judge people or their children on the basis of life choices. -Mark Ireland, Cofounder, Helping Parents Heal
Board Members and Officers of Helping Parents Heal:
Elizabeth Boisson - President & Co-F0under/ elizabeth@helpingparentsheal.org
Irene Vouvalides - Vice President and Conference Chair/ irenevouvalides@gmail.com
Mark Ireland - Co-Founder & Chairman of the Board / irelandmarks@yahoo.com
Doryce Norwood / cherishthemforever@gmail.com
Ernie Jackson / stonejak4@hotmail.com
Brian Smith / onlyhuman141@gmail.com
Jeff Hollahan / jeff-hollahan@cox.net
Carol Allen / carolallen029@gmail.com
Laurie Savoie-Secretary / Laurie6385@gmail.com
Affiliate Director: Dawn Richards
You can read the bios and see photos of each of the affiliate leaders on the Groups page of our website: www.helpingparentsheal.org
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