Affirm Your People
An affirmation is "a statement or action that confirms, supports, or validates the truth, value, or worth of something or someone." I had a conversation with a teacher at my kids' school this week that went like this:
Her: "Every time I see you, I think, what would it have been like to grow up with a mom like you - and I had a great mom."
Me: "Um...really?"
Her: "Yeah, you're incredible, like the most fun mom. I always mean to tell you, but I assume you totally know that about yourself."
Me: (ugly crying) "I really needed to hear that today - thanks."
It was such a good reminder to me that we don't always see ourselves the way other people see us. Let's tell each other more.
|