Copy
A FOCUS ON THE FAMILY CANADA NEWSLETTER
  Donate today
focus-on-pastors
November 2012
focusonpastors

Parenting with a Biblical worldview

 
As a pastor’s kid (PK), hitting my teenage years meant learning to live a dual life: my Christian life, which was pleasing to my parents and my church, and my high school life, which was pleasing to me. My greatest goal was, “May the two never meet.” Of course, neither life – one of hypocrisy and one of blatant sin – was pleasing to God. I did, however, emerge out of those troubling years and went on to follow Jesus Christ as Lord, become a pastor and eventually raise four PKs who live out a Biblical, Christian worldview. I determined early on that, if at all possible, I would not repeat history with my kids.
 
There are always challenges along the way: the world, the flesh and the devil are hard at work; the free-will of man has no regard for gender or age; and pastors and their families are natural targets for Satan – “Strike the shepherd and the sheep will scatter” (Matthew 26:31).
 
With an understanding of the risks for PKs, I set out to do whatever I could to present a Biblical worldview and protect my children from living the lie I once lived. Nothing is foolproof, but I believe there is much we can do with what God has given us to help our children avoid some of the traps and entanglements along the way. Here are my top 10 parenting tips.
 
 
NEWS
To help us better minister to your needs, we’d like to hear from you about the topics that are your highest priority. Send a suggestion for future articles to churches@fotf.ca and we’ll send you a free book!
MINISTRY HIGHLIGHTS
Pastors’ Gatherings
 
We understand the challenges of balancing ministry and family life. Take a well-deserved break with Randy MacDonald, who will discuss how to care for yourself so you can care for others. During this time of fellowship, we’ll offer complimentary, Biblically based resources to you and your family. If you are interested in hosting one of these events in your area, please contact us at churches@fotf.ca.
FEATURED RESOURCE
Why Christian Kids Rebel
 
Few things in life are as painful as having your Christian child rebel against your spiritual lifestyle. Discover how timid reactions to moral crises and lack of authenticity could be the very thing that repels children from our faith — and what you can do about it.
FROM SCRIPTURE
“Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.” 

(Deuteronomy 6:4-9)
WHAT'S ON YOUR MIND
We want to hear from you! What are the most important topics you want us to talk about in regards to ministry life? Send your suggestions to churches@fotf.ca and we will send you a free resource for your library.
TESTIMONY
“I just want to thank you so much for your great presentation yesterday at the Pastors’ Gathering in Edmonton. You shared some stuff about the ministry I underestimated in terms of impact on my family.”
KERITH CREEK
Ministry retreats
 
Renewal and rest for pastors and their spouses.
 
Upcoming seven-day retreats:
Nov. 20 – 27
Jan. 22 – 29
Feb. 19 – 26
 
MINISTRY CONNECTIONS
Speakers and teachers

Focus Canada speakers are here to provide real help for families and marriages.

To learn more about having a Focus Canada speaker come to your church or event, email churches@fotf.ca.
CLERGY CARE NETWORK
For Canadian pastors and their families

Support and encouragement for your personal and ministry life.

For free, confidential counselling, contact us at 1.888.5.CLERGY or info@clergycare.ca.

Our phone lines are open Monday to Friday, 8 a.m. to 4 p.m. PST.
Clergycare.ca
FocusLogo_55px PHONE 1 800 661 9800
EMAIL LETTERS@FOTF.CA
WEB FOCUSONTHEFAMILY.CA TWITTER @FOTFCANADA FACEBOOK FOTFCANADA
     
 
This email was sent by:
Focus on the Family Canada 19946 80A Avenue Langley, BC V2Y 0J8 Canada

Add us to your address book.
 
       
 
We respect your right to privacy - View our privacy policy
Forward to a friend
Update profile
Unsubscribe